tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post2585180495326329482..comments2023-10-28T21:54:43.805+02:00Comments on Bruxelles-Les-Oies: Le regard des autres : vivre ses choix de maternage avec sérénitéAnaïshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08972153667786006876noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post-38776923232034816242016-04-06T23:01:58.136+02:002016-04-06T23:01:58.136+02:00Je réalise que je n'ai pas répondu à Couac et ...Je réalise que je n'ai pas répondu à Couac et Cécilia... oups! Merci pour vos commentaires :)<br />Les grands débats sur le végétalisme, je connais :) courage!Anaïshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08972153667786006876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post-45754580161331380962016-04-06T23:00:14.247+02:002016-04-06T23:00:14.247+02:00Thank you Antonina :) I totally agree with your ob...Thank you Antonina :) I totally agree with your observations and could not have write it better. When I first started to struggle as a mother I try to be a better mum by reading so much books and blogs and I went to see some professionals to help me out with my child (osthéopathe, kinésiologues, homéopathes, whatever). And finally I came to the same conclusion as you: I had to work on my own well-being first. Afterwards, it's my life, my path, and my children work along with me for now and I want to try to be a loving place, a calm center in the raging life for them. I fail everyday, but I try everyday :) Thanx for sharing. Anaïshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08972153667786006876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post-58593540118596192072016-04-02T12:54:00.859+02:002016-04-02T12:54:00.859+02:00Hello, Anais
(Sorry, my French is not so great as ...Hello, Anais<br />(Sorry, my French is not so great as to write in it, so I'll write in English, if you don't mind). <br />It's Antonina - mom of Michael, who is also at EOS (Jde Sarah-Julie), we had a brief conversation once in the hallway. It's from your blog that I've learnt about EOS and I am forever grateful to you :)<br />I wanted to comment on your post, because all the things you wrote resonate deeply with me. You've given perfect advice on how to cope with the discomforting feelings of being against the stream. A couple of additional reflections:<br />- in point 2 you mentioned, that it's important to realise, that you are not making your choice to be against someone, but for your child. I find that extremely important and even more: it is important to clearly separate yourself (and your inner child) who may not have received the kind of care you wanted and your actual child (your son or daughter). Too often parents see themselves in their children (especially if they were traumatised in childhood) and want to make it right through making the choices they hope should have been made for them. And while usually it works fine (it's great to learn on mistakes), sometimes the actual child and his desires, character, temperament can be overlooked. For example, the parent suffered in school and now decides to home-school his child, but his child is a different person and may actually benefit from school (may be an alternative kind, but still). My point is that we need to be careful and always try to see clearly the reasons behind our choices. <br />- That leads me to my next point: the more I have experience as a mother, observing others, etc the more I believe that the greatest gift that we, as parents can give to our children is not to develop them, but to develop ourselves as humans, which means healing our past traumas (if they exist), build strong relationships, listen to our emotions etc. If we do so towards ourselves, we will naturally do so towards our children and this will serve as a best role model. <br /><br />Thanks again for your blog. Keep posting!<br />Kind regards,<br />AntoninaAntoninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11849129397263172268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post-64279898325156016502015-01-14T13:08:42.340+01:002015-01-14T13:08:42.340+01:00Très intéressant, simple et précis et ça fait du b...Très intéressant, simple et précis et ça fait du bien de le lire. C'est très important de montrer l'exemple et ça commence par assumer ses choix, selon moi et d'en être convaincue (ce qui n'est pas toujours évident, on a tous des échecs... ah non, pas moi :D ). <br />Ceci étant le rejet est global. Il suffit de dire que je suis végétalienne, en tant que simple information, pour qu'un débat sans fin et souvent agressif démarre. L'information donnée devient agression ressentie. Je ne sais pas analyser ça encore mais je le vis tous les jours... ^^ Bon courage les parents bienveillants ! <3Céciliahttp://ggiotwins.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878962940255457392.post-68245640379178812532014-12-30T15:11:00.174+01:002014-12-30T15:11:00.174+01:00Bonjour,
merci pour ce texte qui m'a fait réfl...Bonjour,<br />merci pour ce texte qui m'a fait réfléchir ! Je suis aussi adepte du maternage enveloppant et portant et le sentiment que j'ai lorsque je parle de ma façon de faire autour de moi, c'est que les autres parents se sentent remis en question et critiqués quand ils entendent qu'on ne fait pas comme eux. Mais finalement j'en parle peu...<br /><br />Merci d'avoir parlé des maisons vertes bruxelloises, je suis allée au gazouillis grâce à vous et j'ai adoré !<br /><br />élisabethcouachttp://www.couac.canalblog.comnoreply@blogger.com